halo semuanya gue balik lagi nih! setelah berhasil survive dari boredom yang amat dahsyat -_-
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here we goooo
when i was in elementry school, i had a friend who was always bullied and harassed by the other student, because of her physical appearence. in our class, she was the one of overweight girls. it made she have no confident in herself. she kept being punished, and those conditions brought shame to her family. she was started to withdraw herself from the society and spent all her time alone in her room. until finally she was seems really alone in this world. i always thought about her, and so curious so i tried to looking for the answer. actually, there is a person called hikikomori in japanese. hikikomori is an individual who refuse to leave their parents house and isolate themselves from the society exceeding six months. its usually happened on teenagers. the dominant factor that cause hikikomori is pressures from the other people.
in japanese, its seems embarassing to have a hikikomori as family member. because hikikomori will cause two big negative effects. hikikomori may appear unhappy, shy and talk less because they usually sleeping all day and staying up all night just to play video games , watch TV, surf the internet and the other non-social activities. Those activities makes them lose their social skill so that they will face difficulties to interact. as a result, some former hikikomori might be afraid that others will discover their past, adding to their feeling of insecurity around people, especially strangers, in how they should act. in some expert case, the hikikomori lose their friends and going frustation. the other effects, the hikikomori might be a criminal. the hikikomori's fear of social pressure affect change their situation may turn ito anger. if some hikikomori attack anyone, its usually their family. but hikikomori gained increased worlwide attention when the media attributed a number of high profile crimes to it a few years ago. for example in extreme cases, in 2000, 17 years old labeled as hikikomori hijacked a bus and killed one passenger.
but dont worry at all, there also two best ways to handle hikikomori
the first way, give free space for hikikomori to express themselves. the most important thing to do is lesssen the pressure on hikikomori. since the dominant factor come from others who misunderstood the hikikomori, we may starty with tary to understand and accept the hikikomori with all their bad sides. no matter if they have so many problems, including physical appereance, wealth, educational or athletic perfomanace, or even having lived for short period, they still a human just like us that we must respect to join and gathered
the second way is encourage the hikikomori to share social experiences. we must let them to join and gathered and feel a fun and wonderful friendship. slow but sure the hikikomori will realize how beautiful social life is
in summary, we must handle the hikikomori as soon as possible before its too late (!)
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